Unfair Question?

An experienced nurse is said to have recounted this story:

During my second month of nursing school our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last on: “What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?” Surely this was some kind of joke! I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired, and in her fifties, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade. “Absolutely,” said the professor. “In your careers you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say hello.” I’ve never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.

Who in your life have you simply walked by who deserved your attention? Don’t let another day go by before pausing to connect with that individual.

Snap your fingers 12 times!

Unbelievable how an entire year goes by just like twelve short blips! Like 12 quick finger snaps! It’s amazing how year after year, we all are given an opportunity to start afresh. Year 2008 is about to come to a close and it’s time for a little bit of reflection and a lot more of inspirational goal setting; some new commitments, some new adventures, some new attitudes and some new trips to uncharted territories in life!

A lot happened in 2008 in my life! Traveled a new country, achieved a family dream, traveled within the United States with family, made head-way with finances … Yes! As mentioned two years ago the wonderful bank balance is more positive than January 1st! More people have been positively impacted this year and yes old friends have reunited!

Here’s to an incredibly amazing and successful 2009! Let’s make use of the next 12 finger snaps – these 12 months that will be only 12 small blips in our lives – and make sure we touch a life, help someone, impact someone, love someone, travel and see the world in which we live. A year later, when you and I think back and snap our fingers, we both will know in our hearts how we did in 2009.

Cheers! …. and Happy New Year!

Life – A series of near misses

I’m currently reading a book by Howard Schultz who is the Chairman and CEO of Starbucks; it’s titled “Pour Your Heart Into It – How Starbucks built a company one cup at a time“. It’s a book about how he was introduced to the company when it was just a retail store selling bagged coffee beans! He talks about his journey from a young boy who was brought up in the projects of Brooklyn, New York to the employee of a coffee store; and about Starbucks’ journey from a small retail store in the heart of Seattle to the multi-billion dollar empire around the globe that it is today. It is a fascinating account, especially because it’s right from the horse’s mouth!

Towards the beginning, he talks about how he had gone from New York City to Seattle to meet the owners of Starbucks to interview for a position and help in the shaping of the growing company. After the dinner meeting, the next day he received a call declining the offer. Howard Schultz at this point, mustered up all the passion he had about the company and protested and somehow convinced the owners how he could offer everything Starbucks was looking for etc, etc. Long story short – he got that job. And he writes the following:

A whole new world had just opened up in front of my eyes, like the scene in The Wizard of Oz when everything changes from black and white to color. This barely imaginable dream was really going to happen…

In the fifteen years since then, I’ve often wondered: What would have happened had I just accepted his decision? Most people, when turned down for a job, just go away.

Similar scenarios have subsequently played out in my life, in other setting and with other issues. So many times, I’ve been told it can’t be done. Again and again, I’ve had to use every ounce of perseverance and persuasion I can summon to make things happen.

Life is a series of near misses. But a lof of what we ascribe to luck is not luck at all. It’s seizing the day and accepting responsibility for your future. It’s seeing what other people don’t see, and pursuing that vision, no matter who tells you not to.

In daily life, you get so much pressure from friends and family and colleagues, urging you to take the easy way, to follow the prevailing wisdom, that it can be difficult not to simply accept the status quo and do what’s expected of you. But when you really believe – in yourself, in your dream – you just have to do everything you possibly can to take control and make your vision a reality.

No great achievements happen by luck.

I’m just about done with the book, but all I can say that it is facinating to read how a gigantic corporation like Starbucks got started and it is amazing to trace through its developments and understand yet again that any successful endeavor requires hard work, blood, sweat and tears!

As it’s rightly said, Rome was not built in a day.

www.missing.home.in

Homesickness isn’t an emotion, its more like one of those dirty facts you just know in the pit of your stomach and feel in the back of your head, the sort that will not go away, no matter what you do.

I miss home.

Duniya Jhukti hai, Jhukane Vaala Chahiye

Yesterday I met a man upon whom the sun beat down, trying to force him to his knees. The man stood his ground and eventually it was the sun who bent.

Lower and lower it sank, until it drew level with his stare. Lower then, until it disappeared.

Yesterday I met a man who stared down the sun and won.

“And I’ll do it again tomorrow…” he said.

Trying to be famous

I recently came across this cartoon on how to become a famous blogger.

I have taken the path on the right. I became a blogger.

Then I took three months off to try and become famous.

I will have to attempt that again.

For the time being I am back to being a blogger!

 

 

 

[Cartoon by Dave Walker]

Walk Like a Child

The following composition is not mine. I heard it a few years ago and happened to write it down. Today I came across it and would like to share it. This piece so beautifully portrays the freedom, the innocence and hope that children have and that we as adults long to have …

Walk Like a Child

I want to walk in peace
Through the fields and by the trees
I want to dodge through the breeze
Like a little child; can I please?

I want to smell the sand
I want to hold a hand
And sing a little tune
I want to touch the stars and the moon.

So many don’ts and so many do’s
I just want to be me
A golden shackle what’s the use
Can’t I just be free?

I want to dream with abandon
I want to walk through the meadows
To the light and to the sun
And away from the dark shadows.

Walk like a child
Walk with me
To the land of peace
To the land of the free.

Walk with faith
A cheerful gait
Dream with passion
It’s never too late.

Walk with joy
Walk with trust
Because there’s plenty of shade
After the heat and dust.

A Moment in Time

Every once in a while there comes a moment, just a brief moment in time that puts everything in life into a different frame of reference. Every now and then will be a moment that will change completely the way you think. It will exhilarate and excite you because you had never realized something till then, when all that time it has been right smack in front of your face. That one moment in time changes your perspective and adds another arrow to the quiver of our belief system. Something that makes your heart skip a beat and exclaim – Woah! That one moment – one minuscule moment – gives your thought process the much needed sense of direction that you’ve been searching for. It seems to be the answer and provide explanations to things that happen in your life, in your career, in your business and in your relationships. It also provides explanation for things that are not happening in life! It seems to give you that one ingredient that was missing from the recipe of life that would have added the thrill and the excitement that comes with success and empowerment and effective leadership and better relationships.

Just one moment …

For me that one moment was last night. I qualified to attend a leadership training yesterday. Of the twelve hours of the most fantastic teachings from the country’s most knowledgeable leaders, there was one moment at about 9:15PM that, I can say without a shadow of doubt, has transformed my life and my way of thinking. I will obviously not elaborate on the content of that moment as it will not make any sense out of context.

It takes just one moment to change your life – provided you have an open mind and a happy heart.

… only One moment!

Lowering the boom

Ok.. that title may not make a big impact on you if you are not very word savvy, language addicted, voracious reader or a vocabulary fanatic. But somehow, somewhere I bet you will know the underlying meaning of that phrase. Let me give you another try – ever heard of the phrase “receiving the pink slip”?

Aha! So you do know the meaning!

In today’s day and age individuals are not part of a local labor pool anymore. In fact, they are not even part of a national labor pool. Everyone today, is part of an international labor pool. One of my friend’s 12yr old son in the US is getting Math coaching for $2.00/hr by someone online… someone who resides outside of the US. Manufacturing is going to China, customer service is going to India. Just the other day, I dialed a local number to contact my bank. Now this bank, is across the street from my apartment. The contact number was local – with a local area dialing code. When the call was answered on the other end someone by the name of “Stacey” spoke in what sounded like a South-Indian accent! After a little bit of friendly digging, found out that the call was received in India!!

Booklists, etc.

So a very long time ago I was tagged! And since I haven’t written anything sensible for a while, figured I might as well pay-off this tag-debt

Here it goes…